Being a female dominant takes time and practice but here are a few tips to get you started no matter what age you are. During sex you should start to learn about D&S and being dominant. While some of the activities may seem a little strange it is worth noting that these are powerful tools and a must when getting your man to submit.
Start wearing fetish outfits and use his own fetish against him whatever it may be. Female domination and D&S is a great way to spice up your sex life and it will never be boring again. If you are able to overcome your inhibitions you can allow your sexuality and dominance to grow. You will be amazed at how intense sex can be. You will also need to start viewing sex as being about your pleasure and not pleasing your partner. You need to get into the habit of denying your male partner sexual orgasms. By denying him sexual orgasms you will keep him aroused and frustrated and he will be far more eager to please and obey you. He will be much more willing to focus on your and your needs in order to receive his own pleasure.