i am obsessed with femdom, and i cant quit, can you help!?
ByI am 32, married with a child, i am a successful business man and i can have whatever i want, i am very powerful in my job and i make very important descisions everyday, but i got stock with Female domination 10 years ago since my ex-girlfriend dumped me for another man, since then i am surfing pay sites, masturbating 3 times a day, asking hookers to humiliate me and spank me, now it is getting worse i am delaying my business travels an extra day or two to go to proffessional dominatrixs, i am so hooked up with FEMDOM, and i dont want it anymore but everytime i decide not to go there, there is an urge inside of me that makes me weak, female manicured feet make me so weak, the main problem is that i am not sleeping with my wife anymore and i am isolating my self from people, my only concern is to find a good mistress to spank me, i wonder if there are 100% loyal men out there, or am i really a pig, i know i am not, i just want out, i wanna like normal sex again, how can i do it, help!
Tell your wife what you have been doing. She will dominate you at home all you desire, and you won’t need to seek it elsewhere. Stop beating yourself up over the fact that you have different sexual turn-ons than some people. There is nothing wrong with you, you just need to find a way to satisfy yourself without letting it interfere with your life. Your wife would be perfect for this, because you can ask her to be anything you’d like.
This is too serious for me to type an answer for you to read. You need counseling for this one. Good luck and God bless.
why don’t you buy some sex toys and dvds and get your wife into it there is a great collection on http://www.jtbids.com
maybe take her away for the weekend
but please note there is nothing wrong with you.
your only human
Be honest with your wife. You are putting her at risk of contracting STD’s so she has a right to know that there is danger of this…even though you are not having sex with her now I’m sure you have since you have slept with others. So be honest and get tested and allow her to get tested.
If you want out, you have a problem. Enjoying a sexual lifestyle is one thing. Not wanting it and wanting OUT but feeling unable to stop is a problem. Seek therapy. Have you told your wife that you like this? She may be willing to entertain you occasionally. Marriage is about compromise though so you shouldn’t expect this kind of practice regularly…but ASK HER! She may not mind doing this for you and may find she enjoys it herself…