Strap on femdom play is probably the most powerful aspect of femdom activities. Women who use a strap on on their partners tend to feel and overwhelming feeling of power and control. Men on the other hand feel weak and humiliated. If you want to show your submissive who is the real boss then a strap on is the way.
You should always start with a long narrow dildo and work your way up to a thicker one. For extra humiliation you can also give him an enema before hand to ensure that his anal passage is clean for you. Let him know exactly who is in control by taking him fully using your dildo. Feel the power and feel him go weak. Show him that you mean business. These dildos are available in a number of different sizes and shapes and should always be cleaned thoroughly after usage. This could also be his job.