It is actually quite common for men to want to be “taken” and when being taken they like to think in terms of role-reversal so they naturally want to be taken with a penis, believing it to be the “dominant sex. Many subjects/slaves have been “taken in this way and most dominant females prefer to do it with slaves who have never asked for it, let alone even considered it. This will prove their level of devotion in being willing to try whatever the female wants.
Considering this, I suppose you could say many females have broken many men of their “virginity and pride. This is not rare because most slaves are straight. Some maybe bi-curious and still may have never had sexual encounters with another male. Strap on femdom is the act of the male giving himself entirely to the female and in essence, freeing himself from the bonds of being the dominate sex in societies eyes.
The normal and most common preference is to use a double-ended dildo since the act should bring both the female and male pleasure and this item can do just that, whereas a strap-on will mainly only bring physical pleasure to the receiver. However, females should only use a double-ended dildo with a slave who they know is clean (such as a 24/7 owned slaves). On other slaves if you prefer to use complete caution, safety, cleanliness, and intelligence, try wearing a strap-on over top of clothing and a condom on the strap-on. It is also best to use the slave’s own supply of dildos and strap-ons.
Dominants and slaves who do not use such precautions are the very people who spread diseases amongst the bdsm and Femdom scene. It is strongly recommended to use a pair of latex gloves as well. These can be purchased from medical supply stores or in general stores such as Wal-Mart or from a doctor.
Taking a slave from behind gives control over the slave in that he cannot move away so easily and he can also be spanked in the process. The Mistress can even torture his nipples, penis, and testicles at the same time. This can heighten her pleasure as his cries of agony and begging for mercy may excite her further, bringing her to orgasm sooner, and thus freeing the slave in time before he ends up taking the entire length of the dildo.
Remember to stay comfortable in the practices as to not risk damaging the relationship between the two. It is vital that you talk to each other and understand exactly how each other is feeling at all times.
Always use these measures and tips when performing acts of BDSM and other sexual practices. It helps ensure the health of both participants. Neglecting these precautions leaves a great and unneeded risk when it comes to using your head, both literally and figuratively. Also if there is any doubt on the cleanliness of either the slave or the master, make sure either or both are checked out before engaging in any sexual act.