The femdom strapon when used gives dominant women the ultimate feeling of control. You may be under the illusion that strap on s are only used by those in a lesbian relationship but this has all changed. Many people who practice femdom activities also use strap on s.
Some mistresses use their strap on s for humiliation purposes whilst others use them for total control.
Strap On For Humiliation
Some mistresses have been known to force their male submissives to perform oral sex on their strap on s. This for a man really is the ultimate in humiliation, having to give a strap on a blow job. Mistresses use this as a form of punishment for their submissive slaves and they also derive great pleasure out of doing this. Many mistresses will insist that their submissive show them exactly how to give a blowjob and what way they like it. The submissive male although in many cases extremely reluctant to perform such a task will do so under the illusion that he will receive the same treatment in return.
Strap On For Control
The strap on for most dominant females is the ultimate in control and power. Many report that when using it they feel an overwhelming sense of power and control unlike anything they have ever felt before. The use of this object is also seen as the ultimate humiliation too and many femdom mistresses use it.
Using Your Strap On
If you intend on using a strap on on your submissive partner here s a few tips that can help.
- Use plenty of lubrication and start by inserting just one finger. You can wear gloves if you wish.
- Never use your strap on unless you have opened your partner first with your finger.
- Make sure your partner is relaxed and again use plenty of lubrication
- Your first strap on should be very slim. Over time you can work your way up to a thicker one. A sever or eight inch slender strap on is perfect for beginning.
Your male submissive partner may experience some discomfort but he will also feel immense pleasure at the same time. For most men being taken with a strap on by a woman is the ultimate humiliation. There are a number of positions that you can use. The most common position is from behind where the male submissive will be bent over on all fours and you will take him from behind. This also gives you more control and thrusting power.
If you would prefer to see the humiliation on your submissive s face you can insist that he lie on his back with his knees spread so that you can insert your strap on. This does not give you as much power and can be a little uncomfortable at first but if you really want to see their face this position is perfect.
When using sex toys no matter what type of sexual relationship you are involved in, hygiene and cleanliness are vital. Make sure that your strap on is cleaned thoroughly after each use to prevent the spread of germs.